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« Reply #240 on: May 16, 2013, 01:17:57 PM »
Just move on and find someone else. It's all you can do.

Luigison: Question everything!
Me: Why?

Tavros

  • he was hello
« Reply #241 on: May 16, 2013, 01:22:05 PM »
Yeah. I'll do that. Eventually. I've moved on already.
read jitsu wa watashi wa

« Reply #242 on: May 16, 2013, 02:36:02 PM »
Good, good. No use waiting around for something that obviously won't happen.
Luigison: Question everything!
Me: Why?

Markio

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« Reply #243 on: May 16, 2013, 06:49:49 PM »
Could it be that your formerly gay friend is using your crush as his beard?

I've started dating a guy in his late 30s.  We don't quite pass the Standard Creepiness Rule (Age/2 + 7).  So far our dates have consisted of dinner/movies, and cuddle-sleepovers.  I'm trying not to fall for him too quickly until I know him better.  In the meantime I'm enjoying his company.
"Hello Kitty is cool, but I like Keroppi the best."

« Reply #244 on: May 16, 2013, 11:38:52 PM »
^
I was about to ask the same thing, but I thought I might come off as rude for questioning their sexuality. If someone says they're bisexual, gay, or otherwise, I typically take their word for it. *shrugs*
Luigison: Question everything!
Me: Why?

Markio

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« Reply #245 on: June 06, 2013, 11:39:06 PM »
I was seeing this guy for about a month.  Lately I realized that I'm not ready to pursue a serious relationship with him because I don't feel confident with where I'm at in my life.  The guy asked me on Monday where we stood, and I was honest with him.  He broke down and was kind of a wreck, crying and not wanting to hear me say any of it.  It was rather troubling, considering it was my first break-up.

He called me like three times the next day, and admitted to me that he's been very depressed (nearly suicidal) for the past six months, and that his time with me was one of the only things making him happy.  That bothered me because it made certain that he was dependent on me for happiness, rather than interdependent.  I'd rather someone is with me by choice, not out of necessity.

Thankfully, he has scheduled an appointment to see a psychiatrist.  He used to be on medication and never renewed his prescription, which is why he has probably been so depressed for all these months.
"Hello Kitty is cool, but I like Keroppi the best."

« Reply #246 on: June 14, 2013, 04:47:08 PM »
Who shall follow in this man's footsteps?
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« Reply #247 on: June 14, 2013, 05:04:59 PM »
Now with grandeur.

« Reply #248 on: June 14, 2013, 05:19:09 PM »
...Try clicking on the image.
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Turtlekid1

  • Tortuga
« Reply #249 on: June 14, 2013, 06:15:08 PM »
Or don't.  It's not really worth it!
"It'll say life is sacred and so is death
but death is life and so we move on"

Tavros

  • he was hello
« Reply #250 on: June 14, 2013, 08:30:53 PM »
Of course not Turtlekid. Well, at least not for you. I mean, the guy said you could fap.
read jitsu wa watashi wa

« Reply #251 on: December 02, 2013, 12:39:39 AM »
I could have sworn this thread was posted in more recently than June.
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ShadowBrain

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« Reply #252 on: December 04, 2013, 11:08:26 PM »
Geek girlfriend: feelsgoodman
"Mario is your oyster." ~The Chef

« Reply #253 on: December 05, 2013, 04:56:50 PM »
I feel... betrayed.
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« Reply #254 on: December 05, 2013, 09:08:18 PM »
>girls I know either would never like me or are clearly not faithful in a relationship at all
>taste in guys is too picky, and almost all the guys I know are either straight or too old for me even if they weren't

I don't know what to do. Some people don't need to be in relationships to be happy...but I need that kind of intimacy, and it's been too long.
Relics.

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