Author Topic: Talking Advice. (Read 6604 times)

Bigluigifan1.0 · « **on:** November 06, 2005, 10:49:27 PM »

Some of you may know as I may type alot, I don't really talk alot, but I have a book on how to talk to anyone! It's not working! What I noticed is, I'll talk to anyone as long as they talk to me first. I just don't know why I can't just walk up to someone and say somthing! When I plan on talking to someone my brain dies, and I don't say a word. I just don't get it. How can everyone else talk, but I can't?!?

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HolyAarom · « **Reply #1 on:** November 07, 2005, 04:12:43 PM »

There are 2 Possible reasons.

1. You're not outgoing. A.K.A Shy
2. You're talking to a girl you have a crush on.

Bigluigifan1.0 · « **Reply #2 on:** November 07, 2005, 04:29:12 PM »

I know Im shy, but I don't want to be, I don't think anyone wants to be shy. Here's the stuff from the book:

When the person does somthing impressive, do little compliments.

A good topic to talk about is them.

At the end of anyones sentece ask a one-word question, about the sentece.

That's all I can think of for the moment, I hope that helps one of you guys too.

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Vidgmchtr · « **Reply #3 on:** November 07, 2005, 06:32:15 PM »

You don't need a book. It's common sense.

Try keeping your mouth closed and listen to others for awhile. And when you know what their personality is like, and you can relate to most of the things they like, then try speaking to them.

Screech · « **Reply #4 on:** November 07, 2005, 06:47:24 PM »

My policy is that, if I have nothing to say to someone, I don't go out of my way to talk to them.
If you have something to say and just can't get it out, I've heard that imagining the person in their underwear helps, but it's never worked for me.

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Bigluigifan1.0 · « **Reply #5 on:** November 07, 2005, 07:15:13 PM »

Accually VGC, you might be right, but the book had some good stuff in there.

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Mr. Melee · « **Reply #6 on:** November 08, 2005, 08:00:14 PM »

I just talk a lot.

Markio · « **Reply #7 on:** November 08, 2005, 08:04:16 PM »

If you don't have anything nice to say, make sure you have something heavy to throw!

Hey, I'm not good at talking to people either! Of course, I blame this medication for making me more "bad at talking", but I was to begin with, except I felt less ashamed about it.

â€œOf all the people I know, it is expected that Watoad will say â€˜cheeseâ€™ first.â€

dude677 · « **Reply #8 on:** November 08, 2005, 08:15:48 PM »

umm, your topic title has a spelling erorr. Ok, my question... Are there any secret stars in Super Mario Sunshine? I have 112, and i am so frustrated.

Orginized is my middle name.

Poorly is my first.

Bigluigifan1.0 · « **Reply #9 on:** November 08, 2005, 08:17:50 PM »

Huh? And what spelling error? I think you meant to post in Aarom's help topic. Not sure though.

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TEM · « **Reply #10 on:** November 08, 2005, 09:37:47 PM »

Constantly throw yourself into social situations. Eventually you will grow out of your shyness and learn to conversate. You probably will have heavy anxiety pains doing it this way, and may have a strong want to chicken out, but just DO IT. It will work in time. Sooner you start, the better.

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CashCrazed · « **Reply #11 on:** November 08, 2005, 10:23:52 PM »

Did that work for you? It might work at a large school where you'll never see some of your "practice" people again, but I wouldn't risk it at a small school where it's mostly the same people and you'll consistently look like a moron to them.

"I've heard that imagining the person in their underwear helps"

I never got this to work either. It either makes you want to gag or get a stiffy, depending on who you're chatting with.

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BP · « **Reply #12 on:** November 09, 2005, 12:50:04 AM »

Hi bigmariofan1.0. I am a person. How is the weather.

Corn is no place for a mighty warrior!

Bigluigifan1.0 · « **Reply #13 on:** November 09, 2005, 07:47:34 AM »

Now Bird Person, I can make a slight conversation, but the ones that last are the ones that I have a problem with.

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superstarMASIAH · « **Reply #14 on:** November 09, 2005, 08:29:01 AM »

I usually just talk about something that is interesting to me... Like, mario, communism,, or general stuff like music.

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