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Title: Bye, Bye Boyfriend.
Post by: MarlieMoo on June 06, 2004, 08:11:07 PM
My Boyfriend broke up with me today.*sniff*sniff* :(
Title: Re: Bye, Bye Boyfriend.
Post by: Lizard Dude on June 06, 2004, 08:29:18 PM
*weeps bitterly*

“I’m a stupid fatty and I love to play with my Easy Bake oven.”
Title: Re: Bye, Bye Boyfriend.
Post by: Markio on June 06, 2004, 10:48:09 PM
I'd know how you feel if I had a girlfriend...(wink wink).  No really, that does stink.



An apple a day keeps the doctor away, especially if you have good aim!

Title: Re: Bye, Bye Boyfriend.
Post by: MarlieMoo on June 06, 2004, 10:48:35 PM
He said we might get back together someday so there's hope.
Title: Re: Bye, Bye Boyfriend.
Post by: MadRhetoric on June 06, 2004, 11:34:31 PM
Don't get back together with him. He just wants you for your NES.
Title: Re: Bye, Bye Boyfriend.
Post by: MarlieMoo on June 07, 2004, 07:36:59 AM
HeeHee. That's pretty funny.
Title: Re: Bye, Bye Boyfriend.
Post by: MarlieMoo on June 07, 2004, 07:42:19 AM
Gosh! Yesterday was probably the worst day of my life. I was up half the night thinking about it........I'll never find anyone else like him. WWAAAAAAAAAHHH!!!! XP
Title: Re: Bye, Bye Boyfriend.
Post by: Screech on June 07, 2004, 08:08:10 AM
Does someone need a hug?

I might be Sadib...
Title: Re: Bye, Bye Boyfriend.
Post by: Markio on June 07, 2004, 08:54:16 AM
How did you know, Screech? *hugs Screech*

An apple a day keeps the doctor away, especially if you have good aim!
Title: Re: Bye, Bye Boyfriend.
Post by: MadRhetoric on June 07, 2004, 09:13:52 AM
I wonder if she realizes all these posts are useless and/or sarcastic.
Title: Re: Bye, Bye Boyfriend.
Post by: Forest Guy on June 07, 2004, 07:01:46 PM
Marlie, I don't wanna sound mean, but you need to get over it. No relationship at such a young age means anything, and 99% of them will not be serious, and will end up in break-up. You can't say that you guys were destined or that you really loved him, because it's not true. Teenagers don't feel love yet. They have simple infatuations. Regardless of what you think, you will get over it. Trust me, I have seen this happen to friends of mine dozens of times. Maybe you shouldn't get back in a relationship for a while if you're going to get this emotionally destroyed. Remember the phrase, "Only fools rush in!" All these things were reasons I was reluctant to get into a relationship for the first time recently, but I felt I needed a better companion.

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What part of the chicken is the McNugget, exactly?

Edited by - Meowrik on 6/7/2004 6:02:50 PM
Title: Re: Bye, Bye Boyfriend.
Post by: Red Paratroopa on June 07, 2004, 07:01:47 PM
I'm very sorry for you. But as I have learned from my past heartbreaks, don't dwell in the past and look to the future. Also, don't go for the most beautiful person in the school. You will hate yourself for it.

"There''s never enough time to do all the nothing you want."- Calvin
Title: Re: Bye, Bye Boyfriend.
Post by: Markio on June 07, 2004, 07:53:48 PM
Actually, teens do fall in love, like that musician that fell in love with a nine-year-old when he was twice her age and they got married a day before she turned eighteen as an insult to her father, but that doesn't mean you will get married to your fourteen-year-old boyfriend(fifteen?).  Basically, yeah, dwelling isn't helpful, unless you're getting paid to dwell.  This sure is an unusual post.  And yet somehow, unusual just doesn't cut it.

An apple a day keeps the doctor away, especially if you have good aim!
Title: Re: Bye, Bye Boyfriend.
Post by: MarlieMoo on June 07, 2004, 10:57:44 PM
Thanks for the encouragement. I guess your right, I shouldn't dwell on it and yes he's getting ready to be 15. I might go far enough to say that we loved each other cuz he's told me he loved me before and I loved him back but for some reason I never told him that. Oh well, I'll find somebody else in the future.

Edited by - MarlieMoo14 on 6/7/2004 10:00:49 PM
Title: Re: Bye, Bye Boyfriend.
Post by: Raccoon Sam on June 08, 2004, 07:46:11 AM
why did he left you?

(insert signature here)
Title: Re: Bye, Bye Boyfriend.
Post by: MarlieMoo on June 08, 2004, 11:34:23 AM
Well, He said there wasn't anything wrong with me, he just wanted to find someone more like him. Yet, in my mind we were perfect for eachother, but I guess I was wrong. He felt real bad for hurting me like that. The same thing happend to him with an other girl.
Title: Re: Bye, Bye Boyfriend.
Post by: Forest Guy on June 08, 2004, 02:34:31 PM
It's all an illusion.... everyone thinks they're perfect for their partners.
Everything is an illusion! Even trees...

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Title: Re: Bye, Bye Boyfriend.
Post by: Raccoon Sam on June 08, 2004, 03:13:20 PM
oh shut up meowrik,marliemoos probably sad about this and all you can do is just throw a joke? grow up.
Title: Re: Bye, Bye Boyfriend.
Post by: NintendoIke64 on June 08, 2004, 08:40:15 PM
I was going to type a witty comeback, but then I forgot what it was and began to type randomly into this reply box until I got bored which I haven't yet and I WANT A SANDWICH.

There is no ''I'' in team...Nor is there an ''I'' in group, gang, crew, squad, club, band, party, crowd, cluster, troop, or set.
Title: Re: Bye, Bye Boyfriend.
Post by: Chupperson Weird on June 09, 2004, 01:21:54 PM
Meow, just because you're an insensitive shallow twerp doesn't mean everyone else is too.

Saying "teenagers" *cringes* don't "feel love yet" is utter nonsense. It's possible; however, judging from your experience, you simply can't grasp the concept.

Also, you might try to stop being a shallow fool one of these days.

The universe is permeated with the odor of turpentine.
Title: Re: Bye, Bye Boyfriend.
Post by: Sapphira on June 09, 2004, 05:33:33 PM
Meowrik, that is the most horrible thing I've ever heard you say.

"No relationship at such a young age means anything, and 99% of them will not be serious, and will end up in break-up. "
~If it's not serious, there shouldn't BE a bf/gf relationship. Most kids are not ready for a relationship and are unable to comprehend love. If YOU think relationships don't mean anything, then you are too immature. Maybe that's why people shouldn't BE in them at such a young age.

"Teenagers don't feel love yet. They have simple infatuations."
You are so incredibly shallow. Just because YOU don't feel love, it doesn't mean that Marlie nor anyone else doesn't either. Frankly,  if there is no real love, people should NOT be in that type of relationship.
"Liking" someone is not love; thinking someone is "cute" or "a nice person" is not love; being attracted to someone is not love. THOSE are infatuations. But love is certainly capable for some people, but if one does not feel any, then what's the point of having a relationship? As you said, it won't last.  Why would ANYONE in their right mind not want something to last?

"All these things were reasons I was reluctant to get into a relationship for the first time recently, but I felt I needed a better companion."
~Wanting companionship is not love. THAT is "rushing in" for the wrong reason. Sure, YOU may want to BE loved, but unless YOU LOVE that person too and in the same way, you'll just be hurting them. That is horribly selfish and just plain insensitive.

Personally, I don't even think people are even READY for relationships at ALL before age 16. They are just too immature, naive and selfish to know and be ready for what they're getting into. Some people mature faster, others slower, but if one is not able to really love a person, don't even go there.

Notice how so many relationships last barely 6 months? Or if married, end in divorce? When will people learn contentment!? Wait until you find someone you really love, who feels the same way as you, and starts out as your FRIEND and CONFIDANT *before* you enter a relationship. That way you know what the person's REALLY like and they're not just putting on a good face for you.

Maybe I'm just "old-fashioned" or "too traditional" in my thinking, but relationships are something to be taken seriously. But, hey, I will never understand how this backwards world works...

Marlie, I'm very sorry for what happened to you. One may tell another they love them, but unless there are actions and signs of it, it could just be empty words. If he broke up with you because he wanted someone "better" (more like him), then it's good that the relationship's over. You deserve better, someone who will truly love you, and will not jump in because they "like" you or simply want to be in a relationship with ANYONE. I know it hurts you, but unless he learns from that problem, if he comes back he'll just hurt you again. You will find someone someday if that is what you want, but just be patient. If you don't think you're ready to really love a person, seriously consider not worrying about it and concentrating on other things. You have your whole life ahead of you. :)

Meowrik, do not tell her to "get over it"--that just makes her hurt more. She needs to be introspective and look at the situation from her heart AND mind's point of view. One can't change the past, but they can learn from it.

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Wise men talk because they have something to say;
fools, because they have to say something.

Edited by - Sapphira on 6/9/2004 5:07:19 PM
Title: Re: Bye, Bye Boyfriend.
Post by: Lizard Dude on June 09, 2004, 05:44:42 PM
I sat on a bench in a park by myself today for an hour and thought about this stuff. Meowrik is wrong and Sapphira is the most right.

*puts the cat outside*

Ow. It scratched me.

“I’m a stupid fatty and I love to play with my Easy Bake oven.”
Title: Re: Bye, Bye Boyfriend.
Post by: Markio on June 09, 2004, 06:10:35 PM
I have things I have to say.  Not that I "have to say things"(*cough*sapph'ssig*cough*).

TO MEOWRIK:
~Lighten up a little.  That's all.

TO SAPPHIRA
~You should post more, because I liked your posts when you posted more.  Not that you have to listen to me, but your posts are missed, I guess I'm saying.
~Give Meowrik a bend.  Not a break, just a little bend.  He's a guy, and as a guy, I don't think we would know what to say on this topic anyway.
TO LIZARD DUDE
~An hour sitting by yourself outside?  Sounds an awful lot like what I do.

An apple a day keeps the doctor away, especially if you have good aim!
Title: Re: Bye, Bye Boyfriend.
Post by: Vidgmchtr on June 09, 2004, 06:18:01 PM
......Uuuuhhhhh....

I choose not to go out with anyone until after High School.
Title: Re: Bye, Bye Boyfriend.
Post by: Lizard Dude on June 09, 2004, 06:36:29 PM
*bows to Markio's eloquence*

I'm with Markio on his points. Especially the Sapphira posting one.

“I’m a stupid fatty and I love to play with my Easy Bake oven.”
Title: Re: Bye, Bye Boyfriend.
Post by: Trainman on June 09, 2004, 07:08:41 PM
BLOO-HEH. I believe Meowrik is mostly right.

I say this because from seeing idiots from my school, all they want are the features of the guy or girl: aka, LUST.

I mean, seriously, there was a girl at my school that tried to COMMIT SUICIDE by stabbing her veins with a pen to die from ink poisoning because her boyfriend left her: THEY GOT BACK TOGETHER THE NEXT DAY.

I'm NOT trying to be mean, but I am trying to get across to you, MarlieMoo, (rhyme time) that you must not worry about the past and the fool that dumped you for ridiculous reasons and look at what you have right in front of you. Find someone else, but trust me, from seeing people at my school, you don't find your soulmate at 14 years old. Basically, I'm saying it won't last too long. One of my friends has gone through TEN girlfriends this year ALONE and has gone back out and broke up with the SAME girl FOUR times this year. That's how it is, it seems nowadays...
I would suggest trying high school because I am even starting to see the little 3-5 graders doing it acting as if their punks like 50 Cent and those idiots! It's ridiculous now!

Remember that this is ADVICE and not COMPLAINT messages. I want to help.

"If love is around the corner, I must be going in circles." ~My friend
+--Support our troops and now our favorite Ronald Reagan.--+

Edited by - Trainman on 6/9/2004 6:31:05 PM
Title: Re: Bye, Bye Boyfriend.
Post by: Forest Guy on June 09, 2004, 07:40:50 PM
I wasn't trying to be a jerk, I'm simply stating my observations of virtually all the relationships. Most people enter relationships since it's the trendy thing to do. I apologize if I came off a little harsh, but the best thing is to not dwell on the past.

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Title: Re: Bye, Bye Boyfriend.
Post by: MarlieMoo on June 09, 2004, 11:07:44 PM
*sniff*sniff* Thanx Sapph. Thanx everybody!
And Meowrik, I don't mind you jokin' around. It kinda makes me feel better.

I'm so thankful for the friends I have on the fungi forums! *sniff*.  Screech, I think I do need a hug. <:)
Title: Re: Bye, Bye Boyfriend.
Post by: MadRhetoric on June 09, 2004, 11:16:32 PM
Wow, people actually posted some meaningful things in this topic. Nice job.
Title: Re: Bye, Bye Boyfriend.
Post by: Koopaslaya on June 10, 2004, 04:25:04 PM
Well, I'm not one to speak......But. Uh, Sorry?

Don't worry, I guess. You probably wern't gonna get married. Or maybe you were. Aw, shuks. I couldn't help anyone. I'll probably make matters worse. Oh well.... Uh... sorry...I think.
Title: Re: Bye, Bye Boyfriend.
Post by: MarlieMoo on June 10, 2004, 08:18:32 PM
Thank You, Koopaslaya. Your sympathy is appreciated no matter how you word it.
Title: Re: Bye, Bye Boyfriend.
Post by: Popple on June 11, 2004, 05:05:06 PM
I'm sorry he dumped you... I could take him out if you want. It'll look just like an accident, trust me.

Let me away from this boulder!
Title: Re: Bye, Bye Boyfriend.
Post by: Trainman on June 11, 2004, 06:18:05 PM
Yeah, I still think MarlieMoo should just clear her boyfriend out of her mind totally BECAUSE HE is the shallow fool, not Meowrik. He probably dumped you for something stupid like lust for another girl; you know how it is.

Find someone you can count on.

I still find what Chupperson and Sapphira said to Meowrik as a bit more than he should have needed. Like I've said before (even about myself), he can state his opinions as he pleases.

Aaah, this forum is just existing for arguments in this topic... RIGHT UP MY ALLEY!

"If love is around the corner, I must be going in circles." ~My friend
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