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Title: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Yoshisaurus Rex on May 15, 2005, 07:32:44 PM
If this topic doesn’t get some attention then I don’t know what else to make that will. But I didn't make this just to get attention, I thought it would be fun to talk about.  So how many of you guys here have girlfriends (if you aren't married yet)?  What do you most like or dislike about them?  If you don’t have a girlfriend, then what are the characteristics that you search for most in a girl?  And for you girls the same thing goes for you with your boyfriends and stuff, so you can also join in.  I bet this topic has previously existed but there’s nothing wrong with bringing back the classics every once in awhile! (like Nintendo does XD)

As for me, I would so love to lie about this-- like my man Napoleon D.-- and say that I have a really attractive girlfriend in my school who loves Mario games as much as I do, but that’s not true so I won’t say it.  But as for things I look for in a girl… physical attraction doesn’t matter that much to me.  I just want someone who has the same morals and beliefs as me and is honest, fun-loving, and will put up with my occasional weirdness.  And since I’m kind of shy I’d definitely like to go out with someone at least fairly outgoing so they make me feel comfortable (but I could adjust to a shy gal too eventually).  How about you?

Quick Fact: I was going to start this thread out by insulting the reader of being a Mario-obsessed nerd without a chance of fidning a date (just as a joke) but fortunately I didn't.  Because who knows how close I'm aiming at myself after all!

"Do you got a mullet goin’ on?"

Edited by - Yoshisaurus Rex on 5/16/2005 1:39:29 PM
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Luigison on May 15, 2005, 07:41:11 PM
No.  My wife wouldn't allow it.
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Markio on May 15, 2005, 07:49:29 PM
I don't have a girlfriend, but the qualities I look for are girls that are nice to people, aren't taken, think I'm not deranged, and probably have some mental or physical problem that let's them be more understanding and accepting of how I am.  As you can imagine, I haven't found any girl to fit that.

If your day is bad, a nice comment at night can change everything.
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Vidgmchtr on May 15, 2005, 08:02:20 PM
I don't have one, and I pretty much don't care.
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: The Blue Toad on May 15, 2005, 08:19:43 PM
No girl friend, but what I look for is someone who doesn't judge others by looks.  Someone independant, who doesn't fall under peer pressure.  Although some would disagree, someone smarter than me (for some strange reason that just appeals to me).  I don't really care for the average blonde hair blue eyes look that much (but looks don't really matter to me), I like darker hair and green eyes.  But I will not judge on the appearance of girls.  You gotta get to know them.  Another thing: Preppies = NO.  It seems like everyone knows preppies, even if they don't even know your first name!  There's something intruiging about girls who don't dress in bright colors all the time, or who are usually quiet, and aren't constantly smiling every second like a barbie!  The quiet girl in honors class wearing the dark blue sweatshirt quietly reading (no one in particular).  A sense of humor is also a HUGE thing.  Alright, I think I'm done.

I hate how it's so freaking pressured to have a gf now adays!  It's like if you don't have a girl friend, your a huge loser.  It really annoys me.

Edited by - The Blue Toad  on 5/15/2005 7:22:27 PM
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Lizard Dude on May 15, 2005, 08:27:33 PM
I can't figure it out.

P.S. The Blue Toad's description was nice.

“Using the Semicolon can sometimes be a tricky proposition from a syntactical perspective!”
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Insane Steve on May 15, 2005, 08:29:10 PM
I used to have two (not both at once). Neither lasted for over a month. Because, you know, I'm in high school and relate to no one, and I wasn't anything like either of my ex-girlfriends. High school dating is, for the most part, such a waste of time. Well, that and I'm very hesitant to open up to people, and I'm also terrible at remembering anything about anyone and always seem to be apathetic about relationships.

As of right now, no. I'm leaving high school soon. I'm just hoping that, at one point in my life, I'll be able to find someone, anyone, who can understand me, or, better still, help me fix my blaring social deficiencies.

And you do realise that most of the female members of this forum probably won't have girlfriends. Never know, though.

~I.S.~
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Lizard Dude on May 15, 2005, 08:33:35 PM
> And for you girls the same thing goes for you with your boyfriends and stuff, so you can also join in.



“Using the Semicolon can sometimes be a tricky proposition from a syntactical perspective!”

Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Insane Steve on May 15, 2005, 08:37:32 PM
Hooray for being really tired and missing important sentences. You know, when you are carelessly reading the post. Ya.

~I.S.~
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Ambulance Y on May 15, 2005, 08:45:32 PM
I've had a few gf's over the years, but I'm so confused, because my ex and I broke up a few weeks ago, and we both knew we just wanted to be friends, but she's flirting with me again, even though we were happy being friends. And, then there's people that are saying that I should go out with her, and 20 people saying that she really likes me, and then others that are saying that she doesn't. So, I really don't know what to do. Maybe I'll change my name to Hinkleburg Von Strauss XI, shave my head, change my eye color and skin color, and move to Antartic. Sounds like fun.

"You can milk anything with nipples."~Gaylord Focker

Edited by - ledzeppelinrocks on 5/15/2005 7:47:54 PM
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Lizard Dude on May 15, 2005, 08:48:33 PM
That's the best plan I've heard in awhile.

“Using the Semicolon can sometimes be a tricky proposition from a syntactical perspective!”
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Markio on May 15, 2005, 09:44:08 PM
The only girl I could really have a relationship with would be someone I was friends with for a long time already and knew all her friends well too. The girl who sits next to me in math class flirts with me a lot, but I can't even tell if she likes me that way or if it's just incessant flirting.  The scary part is that her twin sister is in my drama group while we film soap operas and I have to go to her house tomorrow, and she said her sister was really looking foward to me being there(eep).



If your day is bad, a nice comment at night can change everything.

Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Vidgmchtr on May 15, 2005, 09:48:36 PM
I agree with Steve's post the most.

High School relationships almost ALWAYS end up in chaos. I have no idea why people do it. Every person I've known who has gotten in a relationship with someone broke up with them later. I ask them if they had anything in common. As I had expected, all of them said "no". This makes me believe that many people are swayed by the media that says "looks are everything". They only liked each other for their appearance, nothing more. I have asked them why they go through with it and why they don't just stop and live their own life, but have gotten hostile replies.

This contributes to why I don't care for dating at this time. It doesn't usually work until college or after, when people finally see that looks aren't everything.
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Sapphira on May 15, 2005, 10:58:53 PM
This is an interesting topic. I'll refrain from saying much (at least for now, anyway) as it'd probably turn into a long, elaborate rant about the world today.

I suppose I'll comment on some things some of you said.
"I don't really care for the average blonde hair blue eyes look that much (but looks don't really matter to me)"
~Ahem! *is offended* :P (Although most of those people are fake blondes, which is just...ugh.) (Yes, I know you said looks don't really matter, but I just felt like saying that.)

"Every person I've known who has gotten in a relationship with someone broke up with them later."
~Well duh. Almost everyone breaks up with a person at some point in time, or else everyone would be with the first person they're ever with for their entire life (which is possible, but not common--especially if it's both people's first relationship, and especially since most relationships are shallow, blah blah blah, etc). Or being with more than one person at a time, which is just messed up. XD
I know you hate Friends, but as Monica said to Chandler (while engaged to him) about a girl he had dated as a kid, "Did you break up with her?" To which he then gives her a blank look and says sacastically, "No, we're still together."

Okay, I ended up ranting there, which I wanted to avoid doing, but basically I'm saying that was a stupid comment, Vid. XP(BTW, that was NOTHING of a rant, compared to what I could go into. XD)

"I ask them if they had anything in common. As I had expected, all of them said "no"."
~That's just sad. And shallow. And...okay, I'll stop.

I also find in interesting that several of those descriptions of characteristics you guys like fit me... >_>; *Hides*

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Wise men talk because they have something to say;
fools, because they have to say something.

Edited by - Sapphira on 5/15/2005 10:08:40 PM
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Markio on May 15, 2005, 11:08:50 PM
You have a mental problem??

(see first post)

Edited by - Markio on 5/15/2005 10:09:19 PM
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Lizard Dude on May 15, 2005, 11:29:26 PM
'Tis better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all.

“Using the Semicolon can sometimes be a tricky proposition from a syntactical perspective!”
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Sapphira on May 15, 2005, 11:48:02 PM
What, do I have to spell everything out? :P
-"someone who has the same morals and beliefs as me"  (I think from what I've heard, YSR has the same as mine, though I don't know how much.)
-honest
-fun-loving (well, depends on each individual's view on what is "fun")
-"will put up with my occasional weirdness" (Eh, I put up with most people's general weirdness. XD)
-"nice to people" (I start out nice to everyone; I only get harsh when someone is being repeatedly rude and/or mean)
-"Someone independant [sic], who doesn't fall under peer pressure"
-"girls who don't dress in bright colors all the time"
-"are usually quiet"
-"aren't constantly smiling every second" (I smile when I'm happy or amused, which if often, but I'm also pretty serious a lot of the time, as well)
-"The quiet girl in honors class wearing the dark blue sweatshirt quietly reading" (This one fits me so much it's freaky. XD)
-sense of humor (although different people have different senses of humor)

Uh, I think that pretty much covers it. Give or take, as some things are relative. I'm also pretty understanding, even if I can't relate to something personally.

LD: I agree.

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Wise men talk because they have something to say;
fools, because they have to say something.
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Vidgmchtr on May 16, 2005, 12:27:43 PM
Well, when I said later, Sapph, I meant, like, a few weeks to a month.

I know a girl who has gone out with a guy for about a year, but in all the pictures I've seen with them together, he didn't seem very interested in her. In fact, she always told me stories on how she was ignored by him when having conversations because he was playing with his GBA. They broke up....then got back together.....then broke up again.....then got back together. See a pattern going on? She's obviously lusting him, and when she says something like, "I'm sorry. Will you go out with me, baby?", I'm guessing his reply always is "Okay, sure. ALRIGHT! NEXT LEVEL!".
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Watoad on May 16, 2005, 02:42:36 PM
> "I don't really care for the average blonde hair blue eyes look that much (but looks don't really matter to me)"

~Ahem! *is offended*




And with that I got the closest I've ever come to literally falling out of my chair while laughing.



There is probably more than I realize that I could say on this subject, but my views are getting to the point where I have to think about them a lot to understand them—explaining them so that others can understand might be impossible right now. They aren't even my views, which doesn't make sense. So yeah, I won't even try until sometime after E3, if ever.



But it is interesting to read what you guys have to say. And sometimes pretty darn funny, too. ;D



"He is not a fool who gives up what he cannot keep for the sake of what he can never lose."

Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Red Paratroopa on May 16, 2005, 03:21:56 PM
Yes, Koopie Koo is now my girlfriend. She used to be with Koops, but he broke her heart on Valentine's Day (turns out he's a jerk). Fortunately, she realized it is I she belongs with, and we've been together ever since.

"It''s impossible this way!"

Edited by - Red Paratroopa on 5/16/2005 2:37:55 PM
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Koopaslaya on May 16, 2005, 06:02:32 PM
I guess its better that I'm a jerk than a short, fat, brown-haired kid with a Hawaiian shirt on.

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Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: The Blue Toad on May 16, 2005, 06:04:10 PM
Sry Sapphira.  I guess it just seems like EVERYone likes blonde hair and blue eyes, and a lot of girls are indeed, fake blondes.  Britteny Spears does NOT help the matter....and what's wrong with brown hair, KoopaSlaya?

P.S. - Sapphira from "Eragon"?

Edited by - The Blue Toad  on 5/16/2005 5:06:49 PM
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Watoad on May 16, 2005, 06:17:07 PM
Nope, Sapphira from Sapphira's own creativity. Saphira (notice the difference in spelling) in Eragon came later, I think. Even if it wasn't later, though, they are quite completely separate and coincidental.



"He is not a fool who gives up what he cannot keep for the sake of what he can never lose."

Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Sapphira on May 16, 2005, 06:19:13 PM
"and what's wrong with brown hair"
~It's an inside joke of sorts, or something. I got what he was talking about.

P.S. Why does everyone keep asking me that? No. :P
Edit: Seems Wat beat me to it.

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Wise men talk because they have something to say;
fools, because they have to say something.

Edited by - Sapphira on 5/16/2005 5:20:05 PM
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Koopaslaya on May 16, 2005, 06:20:22 PM
Inside joke, don't worry about it, The Blue Toad.
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: TEM on May 16, 2005, 07:47:29 PM
I like redheads and freckles.

Time slowed and Reality bent.
But on and on the Eggman went.
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: MadRhetoric on May 16, 2005, 07:57:57 PM
All women are fiends angelical, serpent hearts housed in beauty, sirens luring us guys only to crash painfully on the rocks.

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Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Ambulance Y on May 16, 2005, 08:17:10 PM
I just think they're hot.
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Vidgmchtr on May 16, 2005, 08:58:21 PM
Yes, Koopie Koo is now my girlfriend. She used to be with Koops, but he broke her heart on Valentine's Day (turns out he's a jerk). Fortunately, she realized it is I she belongs with, and we've been together ever since.

Oh, really? Turns out I'm good friends with Koops. He says he broke up with her because he found out she was cheating on him while he was with Mario, getting the Crystal Stars.

Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Markio on May 16, 2005, 09:10:23 PM
Is Koopie Koo the same person RP had a crush on for a long time?  The one he said made him upset when he saw other guys flirting with her(as if that narrows it down)?

I think people compare Sapphira to Saphira because they are both highly assertive.  To tell the truth that you've all probably heard by now, I was disppointed with the dragon in Eragon.  not just because it was a girl dragon, but she was very condescending and I just plain didn't like her, or her dialect, if that matters.  I HATE YOU ALL! BWAHHAHAHAHAHAA!!! Er--no, I just don't like the condecending fashion of a dragon who grew up in five months and looks down on it's owner.  Or maybe I just don't like her.  I only really liked the Murtagh character.

If your day is bad, a nice comment at night can change everything.
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: superstarMASIAH on May 17, 2005, 07:02:19 PM
I've been wanting to reply to this topic for a very long time.  I would like to comment on LD's post "Tis better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all"  In most cases, not true.  But, being around people, and watching them,but not interacting, can unfortunatly drive you crazy. Somehow I cant talk to girls, I just tense up, sweat, and stutter.  But I'm going into 10th grade!  Thats intermediate krap!  But I cant help it if I cant even come up with a straight up answer for a girl that asks, why I love Mario so much.  You know, I really pander this, because I'm definatly not gay, believe me, only I could truly know.  I am always interested in this one girl though, every year.  She's just like me, kind of.  Shy, and I would say the type of poem that could describe us would be the Hyku.  Does anyone out there think I'm crazy.  Because I may concider it.  Nevermind, I'll just make a whole other topic about it.

O world-egg, hear me.
I am Horus of millions of years.
I am lord and master of the throne
Freed from evil, I traverse the ages
and spaces that are endless.
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Vidgmchtr on May 17, 2005, 07:42:01 PM
....What's "Hyku"?
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Markio on May 17, 2005, 08:53:18 PM
"Haiku", I think.  Well, I know, but that dosn't sound like a great statement
to...state.


The only girls I get nervous around are ones I've never talked to or haven't seen in a long time.  I agree somehow to how SSM can't give a good or satisfying answer to "Why do you like Mario so much?", but I don't necessarily mean Mario.  I have a "problem" some of you know or hopefully don't know, but after going on medication which seems to magnify the significance of the problem, I became insecure of the subject and began holding my shirt collar in PE when we wear just a PE shirt and no collared shirt.  A lot of people(or the same people over and over) asked me why I hold my shirt collar or paper clip it, which I can't answer.  As if I can answer that in a normal voice and within three sentences.  Even though it's a simple question of curiosity, they would get more than they ordered and either empathize or know more about me than I am comfortable giving away.  I would rather bite my lip in pain when people hit me there for a few years until I am off darned medication than tell people one of my deeper secrets when I'm halfway through medicaton and the fact of what I had/have would never change.  Teenagers just aren't very understanding, especially guys.  Girls are more understanding though, and while I wouldn't tell a girl anything either on this subject, at least I could confess lesser things to one.  It's like having an English teacher: who wants to write down their thoughts and feelings that some old...guy is going to read?  I guess I shouldn't care what these people think/would think about me, because in four years we're gone, plus school is for pursuing interests in careers or general knowledge, not developing unstable relationships that often don't build up to anything.  My sister had a boyfriend senior year at high school and they were really great together, but broke up a little before graduation because they were going to different colleges and keeping a relationship like that would be tough and prone to failure anyway.  My sister told me that high school relationships are pointless and won't matter after a while, and I agree with her to some extent; some people get married successfully from high school, and Lizard Dude's line was pretty nice and makes the love sound worth it, however temporary or little of it there is.



There.  That's my long "rant" or whatever it's called.  Sapph, I think you deserve to "rant" a little.



If your day is bad, a nice comment at night can change everything.

Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: superstarMASIAH on May 18, 2005, 05:05:32 AM
Sorry, it was late that night, so I really didnt care how I spelled it.

O world-egg, hear me.
I am Horus of millions of years.
I am lord and master of the throne
Freed from evil, I traverse the ages
and spaces that are endless.
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Deezer on May 18, 2005, 12:26:22 PM
When it's late at night
My spelling takes a back seat
To impending sleep
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: superstarMASIAH on May 18, 2005, 02:49:05 PM
I just noticed how thinking of this one girl makes me think of the most meaningful things.  But when they come out, they dont seem to represent anything, and sound very awkward to myself and other people.  I mean, when I think of it in my head, it sounds awesome.  But when I listen to it, over and over again, I say to myself "DUH!  Thats stupid!"  Please note to me when I do something like that again.

O world-egg, hear me.
I am Horus of millions of years.
I am lord and master of the throne
Freed from evil, I traverse the ages
and spaces that are endless.
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: boomstix on May 18, 2005, 04:31:56 PM
My whole "6th grade romance" seems like one big deja vu and that kills me; it's so weird knowing that millions of millions of people have gone through the exact same "I-want-this-girl-but-she-doesn't-want-me" thing. My whole life feels unoriginal. That feels sort of weird. Has anyone else ever felt like this? No? Ok.

BOOM is for BOOMSTIX!
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: HolyAarom on May 18, 2005, 04:37:29 PM
I don't have a girlfriend but I have a girl as my best friend. We have known each other since 5th grade and we still talk every few times a week. She loves Nintendo and is a nice person.

I like strawberry milk
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Red Paratroopa on May 18, 2005, 05:40:15 PM
No, different Koopie Koo (although, the two are amazingly similar).

"It''s impossible this way!"
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Vidgmchtr on May 18, 2005, 08:52:34 PM
Well, if it's a different Koopie Koo, how did the one you're going out with also go out with Koops?
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Sapphira on May 18, 2005, 10:13:35 PM
Okay, Markio, I guess I'll rant a bit. :P

First things first...
*Stabs MamaMia Mario*
*Slaps ledzeppelinrocks across the face* You horrible, horrible shallow person! It's guys like you that make me sick with rage and despise most of male population, because of this stereotype a lot seem to fit. (No offense to the rest of you.)

"I would like to comment on LD's post ‘Tis better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all’ In most cases, not true."
~In most cases, it's not real love. Most people don't know the meaning of real love (especially high schoolers); everything is so shallow and meaningless and pointless and only based on looks or "oh, they're hot/cute/nice/sweet/funny/mischievous/etc" and not based on character. ...Okay, the list goes on, and I'll stop ranting. Suffice it to say, most relationships make me absolutely SICK because of its shallowness. They don't really *KNOW* the person. Inside and out, good and bad, high points and low points, quirks and weirdness and all. Only then can you really LOVE a person--because you love them for WHO they ARE, despite their flaws.

"But I'm going into 10th grade! Thats intermediate [crud]!"
~Uh...that sounded incredibly desperate and driven by peer pressure. You should NEVER feel pressured into "getting a girlfriend" because "everyone else is doing it" or "I'm a loser if I don't have one" or "it makes you cool"--the ones who put that pressure upon one are shallow themselves. Only do something if your heart is genuine--and (it's my personal ...perception, or something..) that one should not even BE in a relationship unless they really LOVE the person first--AND is ready to handle a relationship.

". . . I cant even come up with a straight up answer for a girl that asks, why I love Mario so much."
~If someone doesn't understand or at least *accept* something you love (as long as there's nothing WRONG with it), they are not accepting you as a person, and never will. You shouldn't have to explain it. They may not understand why you are the way you are, or why your interests are what they are, but they should at least *accept* it. If they don't accept it and accept you for who you are, that should be a red flag--you shouldn't be with someone like that. If they accept it from the start, they may eventually *understand* it, if they don’t already from the start.

"My sister had a boyfriend senior year at high school and they were really great together, but broke up a little before graduation because they were going to different colleges and keeping a relationship like that would be tough and prone to failure anyway."
~See, that just saddens me. It's evidence they really didn't LOVE each other. They may have LIKED each other, but if they really, deeply loved and cared for each other, they would not want to lose what they have. It would be too precious, something worth keeping. If it's love, it will last regardless of how far apart or close together they are, how little or how frequently they get to be together. It would be tough, but if both really love each other, then both will view it as worth it.

Deezer: AHAHAHA to your post. XD

boomstix: Try being on the opposite end. It's quite awkward.

"Well, if it's a different Koopie Koo, how did the one you're going out with also go out with Koops?"
~Is it just me, or did that not make any sense? XD Hmm, or maybe the other Koopie Koo wasn't the real one, and the "different" one IS the real one, or something. CLONES AAAAH! ...I think I just confused myself.

Anyway, AAAAH! THE RANTING!! Man, I hope you're happy, Markio. :P  I think that's all the ranting I can handle for now. x_x


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Wise men talk because they have something to say;
fools, because they have to say something.


Edited by - Sapphira on 5/18/2005 9:35:53 PM
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Markio on May 18, 2005, 10:41:10 PM
I'm happy that you called me a man maybe, but otherwise I had a bad day and want to die or get my life over with past right now.

If your day is bad, a nice comment at night can change everything.
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: smfan1085 on May 19, 2005, 09:15:04 PM
Sapphira: I don't want to offend you or get on your bad side, but don't you think you're being a bit hard on MamaMia Mario and ledzeppelinrocks? It seems to me that MMM must certainly have been joking around (his post sounds humorous, though with my limited knowledge I can't understand the last part); and even so your reaction was, to say the least, rather extreme. And even if LZR's remarks were somewhat "shallow", a response like that seems a bit much. Also, I can't help but notice that some of your remarks seemed a bit on the feministic side; I hope you are not really a feminist. (I should mention here that I have a passionate dislike for feminism. If asked, I'll talk about why I hate it.)

I apologize for poking my nose in, and I ask you not to think me arrogant for saying these things, since I'm much newer and lower in rank than you, and also have never spoken to you before.
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Sapphira on May 19, 2005, 09:55:01 PM
"It seems to me that MMM must certainly have been joking around (his post sounds humorous, though with my limited knowledge I can't understand the last part); and even so your reaction was, to say the least, rather extreme."
~*Ahem* Ever thought that *I* was also joking?

I'm not a feminist, but I abhor shallowness. I despise remarks like "she's hot" or "he's gorgeous" or other physical, lusty attractions, regardless of the gender the person making the comment, and regardless of the gender of the one it's directed toward. While I don't think too highly of the general male population, neither do I think too highly of the general female population, either. The general population is pretty much driven by lustful, impure desires, and it makes me sick. Ricidule me if you will for it.

I should mention that *I* have a passionate dislike for the shallowness of society. I'm more moralistic than feministic. Gender is irrelevant; it's all about character, in my mind.

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Wise men talk because they have something to say;
fools, because they have to say something.

Edited by - Sapphira on 5/19/2005 9:24:31 PM
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Markio on May 19, 2005, 10:05:00 PM
Sapphira... jokes?  Well I never...

Today I was sitting next to a friend at an assembly and he pointed to a girl and said she was hot.  The girl he pointed to was from my Drama class, and I really did not like her.  She would hang around with the other guy in my project group, and the guy basically makes fun of me whenever I talk, calling me a "homo" or a freak or some other random thing, and when I try to insult him back, the girl says, "Why are you so mean to him?", as though he never said anything to me first.  Proof that looks don't matter.

If your day is bad, a nice comment at night can change everything.
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Yoshisaurus Rex on May 20, 2005, 07:37:14 AM
You should probably tell her that he's like that and just try to ignore him for the most part.  Yeah, easier said than done, but I have a brother who nags me about everything so I too know how hard it is.

Sapphira: Joking about stabbing and slapping someone seems like sick humor to me (unless you're slapping someone with a fish XD).  But it's good to know that you care so much about what people are like inside and not Hollywood's skin-deep perspecitve.  Also, I don't care what color hair and eyes a girl has, even if it is blonde!  Oh the horror! (joke)

Watoad: What exactly did you mean when you said that your beliefs are not your own?  Do you mean that they're you're parent's or friend's beliefs and you still are trying to make them your's too, or did you mean something else?

Nice haiku, Deezer
I wish I could make them too
But I don't know how.
(see how bad that was? XD)

"Do you got a mullet goin’ on?"

Edited by - Yoshisaurus Rex on 5/20/2005 6:42:04 AM
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Toddathon on May 20, 2005, 10:39:37 PM
I guess I should share my long story with everybody too.

I didn't start dating until I got to High School, but for the first two years I was in several non-serious relationships.  Nothing serious at all, hugs and kisses only, and they usually never lasted long at all.  I think the longest one was about six weeks.

The second half of Grade 10, I decided to stop this, and avoid girls, because i kept hurting, and getting hurt.  However, that summer I had spent quite a bit of time with this one girl, and I liked her, and I was positive that she liked me.  I knew she was different, because I was actually scared to ask her out, but eventually I built up the courage and went for it.  She had dark hair, and a nice smile to go along with it.  However, after about 2 and a half months I wasn't having a good time anymore.  She was becoming very bossy, very negative, and we were fighting more, and she was trying to control me.  A week later I broke up with her, and since I'm not proud of the way I broke up, I'm not going to share it.

My next girlfriend came about three quarters through Grade 11.  She was a nice girl, a little timid, but we seemed to connect quite meaningfully, but once again I felt that I made a mistake, and before the schoolyear ended, we broke up.

When I started my last year of school, that's when I started teaching at the elementary school as an educational assistant for half the day, and after a few weeks of doing that, I decided that I wasn't going to date at that time because I really wanted to focus on my career.  This was stopped 2 weeks later by a beautiful girl named Tara who I jumped into a relationship with.  This girl was a sweetheart too, she was beautiful and cool.  She was humourous, and we were so much alike that it was crazy.  I found her to be quite amazing, and I did more with her than any other girl I've been with.  However, bad news came back when she was going to be moving away that January, which saddened me greatly.  We seldom discussed this, and in the end we decided to break up for the greater good.  I really miss her, she was by far the best girlfriend I've ever had.

Now let's check in on lately.  As of March Break I started dating a girl who is two years younger than me.  She has dark hair, and is pretty.  She's very different than any of my other girlfriends, and I think that we're too different.  I do like her, and I care about her deeply, but to be honest I really have my doubts.  We're way too different, and I'm only going to be here for one more year.  That, plus she's always gone out of town, i'm having a harder and harder time keeping this relationship together, so I'm considering ending it, but I don't want to hurt her because I like her, and I think she would be sad to lose me.

Well thanks for listening!

___________________________
I am the best person in existance!
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: smfan1085 on May 20, 2005, 10:39:53 PM
Sapphira: Yes, I agree with you about the "shallowness" stuff. I, too, am disgusted by the impure, lustful desires so prevalent in modern times, and I admire your firm opposition to such things. I've also found that I agree with you on some important issues, such as abortion and homosexuality (I've read your views on such things elsewhere). The reason I posted that was not to disagree with you about shallowness, but to comment in as inoffensive a way as possible that you were overreacting somewhat. Oh, and I knew you were not being serious when you said the stabbing thing, but it was just, you know...
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Markio on May 20, 2005, 11:14:38 PM
Let me list all of my crushes:

My first gilrfriend was in second grade.  I used to play with her every recess until I wanted to play soccer with the other guys, and when I did that, people thought I dumped her.  But we worked it out so we always sat with each other in the dirt on the second base of the softball field during the ten-minute break at two o' clock.
Sadly, she left school in third or fourth grade and I never saw her again.  She was also one of my friends that believed that deep inside of ourselves we must have super powers.  I remember swinging from low-hanging branches, thinking we could fly if we tried hard enough.  I also remember imagining the "Whole New World" song from Aladdin with her as Jasmine and me as Aladdin in my daydreams.

This year I've had three crushes.  One was on the girl who sits next to me in Math class, but I think that was because she was the nicest person in that class though.  After seeing her group of friends though, I knew we could never work out if anything ever happened that brought us together; she was too normal.

Another crush was on a girl in my German class, but the same "different friends" thing got in the way; namely, she had friends and I didn't.  Just kidding, I had friends, but I just couldn't see myself getting along with her friends well.  At least she also remembered the 3 Ninjas and I like how see would laugh worrilessly like a rebel, with life as a wild ride, but with meaningful friendships.

Another crush was on a girl in my Drama class who was in the musical with me.  But she liked older guys I think, and because I was involved in an activity that requires more human contact than normal, I switched into "immature/psycho" mode and probably scared her away, as if she was warming up to me anyway.

In conclusion, serious relationships should be left to little kids, who understand better than us teenagers do.  When I develop a crush on a girl, it's really just an admiration of one of their qualities.  Everyone has good qualities that make me happy to see that that person isn't all bad, but I can't see how I can tie into their life with one similarity like that.  My "crushes" are really just people I could see myself having an intelligent conversation with, or a silly laughing fit over something we both remember or know.  I feel that I would invade a person's life if I acted out intimate feelings toward them, although the intimacy level is usually low, which means I shouldn't try in the first place.  Plus freshamn year in high school is where half the people are prepubescent and the others aren't, so things get mixed up.  When I see couples talking and smiling as they look into the other's eyes, it makes me happy to see that at least they're happy with each other at that moment.  It doesn't matter if they break up later since it isn't true love, because if people can have at least one fleeting moment like that, where they're together and that makes them happy, that has to be worth something.


Oh, but I don't like when they block the middle of the hallways.

Edited by - Markio on 5/20/2005 10:19:09 PM
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Ambulance Y on May 21, 2005, 01:14:37 PM
I disagree. I'm sharing my opinion, that's all, but, I think that teenage relationships are not useless, I think they sometimes actually work out, just some people weren't meant for eachother. Little kids sometimes just go out with eachother just because they think they have to, but in older relationships, the feelings are actually there. I don't mean to sound corny, but that's the truth. So, yeah. Btw, this is my 300th post. Go me.

"You can milk anything with nipples."~Gaylord Focker
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Lizard Dude on May 21, 2005, 10:48:15 PM
Watoad, in the hotel room you asked me what I meant by my first post here but then I got distracted.

What I meant is that when you live in different towns, it is a different sort of beast.

“Using the Semicolon can sometimes be a tricky proposition from a syntactical perspective!”
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Chupperson Weird on May 22, 2005, 12:50:12 AM
"Sapphira: Joking about stabbing and slapping someone seems like sick humor to me (unless you're slapping someone with a fish XD)."

...I don't think that part was a joke.

Hoo boy. When I get home, I think I'll have a lot to add to this topic.
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: luigi~lover on May 22, 2005, 03:42:47 PM
Funny you mention the fake blonde's. A new girl just started at my school( yes, when there is only 1 month remaining) and she dyed her hair a bright blonde, and even puts in those fake contact lenses to change the colour of her eyes to blue or violet(no jokes)! She try’s to talk like a valley girl, and I haven't seen her wear any other colours besides pink, purple, and baby blue. She is like a real live barbie doll, it’s quite sad.  Even the teachers laugh at her, and I admit I’ve gone out of my way to humiliate her.  I don’t know what she’s trying to accomplish, but she’s not impressing anybody. I just don’t understand some girls, they should just be themselves, not the person they see in those silly teen magazines! Maybe it’s just easy for me to say, since I have never hid myself from anyone, but I think most people would agree with me.

~*The road to success is always under construction*~

Edited by - luigi~lover on 5/22/2005 2:45:38 PM
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Yoshisaurus Rex on May 22, 2005, 05:07:14 PM
Except for the humiliating part, yeah.  Stupid media.

Chup: You mean she really stabbed someone? *pushes lots of people into a pool*

"Do you got a mullet goin’ on?"
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: superstarMASIAH on May 22, 2005, 05:58:08 PM
Sapphira, please do not take offense to this.  You kind of make your self look like a hypocrit.  Because I know that it is basic human nature to be lustful.  Humans are pure sin, and were created by some-one who knew right from the git-go!  You never said this, but it sounds like you are trying to make yourself seem like youve never been physically attracted by some-one.  Oh, yeah, and whenever you comment on someone, you quote them, its really annoying.

O world-egg, hear me.
I am Horus of millions of years.
I am lord and master of the throne
Freed from evil, I traverse the ages
and spaces that are endless.
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Sapphira on May 22, 2005, 07:11:16 PM
It's one thing to find someone physically attractive. It's another thing when that is your REASON for being attracted TO them.

There's nothing wrong with physical beauty, but when that becomes the most important/only reason for liking someone, it's shallow.

While I have found people to be nice looking, I have NEVER once experienced the feeling of "lust." That may be hard to believe, but I'm being completely honest. I'm just not attracted to people in that way. I may be a hypocrite in other areas (everyone is a hypocrite in some way), but this is something I'm definitely not hypocritical about.
Outside beauty can be superficial; there's nothing wrong with it, but it's what's on the inside that really counts. Unfortunately, when someone is physically attractive, it becomes harder for other people to see them for who they really are.
I find it flattering when people compliment my physical appearance, but I find it much more flattering and it means so much more to me when someone compliments something about my character. I'd rather be admired for who I AM inside than for how I LOOK on the outside.

What's wrong with quoting? It clarifies to what you're responding to.

I'm tired of all these people getting on my case about everything. I mean, seriously, what's the deal here?  This is another reason why I didn't want to rant about this subject.

--------------------
Wise men talk because they have something to say;
fools, because they have to say something.

Edited by - Sapphira on 5/22/2005 6:15:12 PM
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Luigison on May 22, 2005, 07:55:02 PM
I think I now better understand why there are few females on the Fungi Forums.  You guys run them off.

There's nothing wrong with quoting.  I prefer it as long as it's not a quote of a quote of a quote of quote ...
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: smfan1085 on May 22, 2005, 09:06:11 PM
Did you read my last post, Sapphira? I am not trying to run you off, and I only posted that first thing because I considered there to be a good reason. As I said, I was not trying to offend you or anything. Oh, and as for the "feminist" part, it's just that I have this thing against feminism; I get roused by anything that looks remotely like it. For this reason even some of your past remarks helped to lead me to say that in this thread. So from now on just don't mind me or listen to my remarks.
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Markio on May 22, 2005, 09:59:50 PM
I think us guys AND girls run people off.

If your day is bad, a nice comment at night can change everything.
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Lizard Dude on May 23, 2005, 02:04:52 PM
*runs off*

“Using the Semicolon can sometimes be a tricky proposition from a syntactical perspective!”
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Watoad on May 23, 2005, 06:08:50 PM
Wah! Too many big
globs of text! I can't handle
it. Or maybe I'm

still just too tired.
Thanks, Lizard. Now I guess I
half understand what

you said. Maybe the
rest of my confusion lies
in a glob of text

that I did not quite
manage to read. Too bad for
me. No soup for you.

"He is not a fool who gives up what he cannot keep for the sake of what he can never lose."
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Markio on May 23, 2005, 07:38:26 PM
The getting on your
case is because we don't like
you, Sapph.  JUST KIDDING! @_@'

Unrelated to anything, the woman who plays Aunt Petunia in the Harry Potter movies was in the Super Mario Bros movie as someone.

Edited by - Markio on 5/23/2005 6:39:05 PM
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Red Paratroopa on May 23, 2005, 07:40:16 PM
Markio brightened my minute.

"It''s impossible this way!"
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Markio on May 23, 2005, 08:07:11 PM
Honor to serve you,
Red Paratroopa. Aw gee,
I'm a copy cat.

If your day is bad, a nice comment at night can change everything.
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Deezer on May 23, 2005, 08:14:14 PM
Haikus rock.
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Watoad on May 23, 2005, 09:15:40 PM
Deezer rocks.

"He is not a fool who gives up what he cannot keep for the sake of what he can never lose."
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: MEGAߥTE on May 23, 2005, 09:56:10 PM
Unrelated to anything, the woman who plays Aunt Petunia in the Harry Potter movies was in the Super Mario Bros movie as someone.

Not just anyone... Lena.
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Chupperson Weird on May 26, 2005, 12:43:14 AM
ALL FOLLOWING MATERIAL IS HIGHLY SUBJECTIVE, AND SUBJECT TO CHUPPERSON WEIRD'S OPINION. TAKE ALL CONTENT AS SUCH.

TEM says: "I like redheads and freckles."
-Somewhat surprisingly to myself, I would too, if I wasn't attracted to someone who has neither freckles nor red hair.

MMM says: "All women are fiends angelical, serpent hearts housed in beauty, sirens luring us guys only to crash painfully on the rocks."
-Mad acts stupid lots.

ledzeppelinrocks says: "I just think they're hot."
-ledzeppelinrocks is a pure idiot for that comment.

superstarMASIAH says: "I've been wanting to reply to this topic for a very long time. I would like to comment on LD's post 'Tis better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all' In most cases, not true."
-See Sapphira's reply to this comment. If you really love someone, then it's always worth it. From what I've seen, most people don't really know what love even is.

I'm just sorry, but I find that Todd's post reeks of shallowness and misconceptions.
"Nothing serious at all, hugs and kisses only, and they usually never lasted long at all. I think the longest one was about six weeks."
-In my considered opinion, if you kiss someone, it had better be serious. That's just about the most serious and sincere expression of love that I can think of. If there's something more "serious" than that, as far as such relationships go, then I'm very confused.
If you don't think you should be in a relationship, then for both people's sake, say something.

I also have qualms with this post:
"Because I know that it is basic human nature to be lustful. Humans are pure sin, and were created by some-one who knew right from the git-go!"
-First of all, that statement really didn't make any sense, and on top of that, I totally disagree with it. Going by this outlook, if humans are "pure sin," I see nothing worthwhile in living, caring about anything, or even existing.
"You never said this, but it sounds like you are trying to make yourself seem like youve never been physically attracted by some-one."
-You realize, that could be possible. Just because most people are like that, it doesn't mean everyone in the world is that way. That's the problem with your first generalization, also.
I am quite sure that I have never felt this sensation known as "lust."
I've only ever had one crush on a girl, when I was 7 years old. She was probably 13-15, something like that. We were in a play together. I don't even remember caring when the play was over; I don't even have any idea what she was like anymore. However, that feeling caused me to shallowly pursue for a number of years another girl, whom I had known for a while before this. Eventually I realized that this was pointless, because even though I wanted them to be, the feelings were not genuinely there.
A couple years later, and I was still good friends with this girl. Only then, slowly, I realized that I did actually have genuine feelings for this girl. I tried to tell her about it, but she didn't really want anything to do with it. This has gone on for several years. More than ever, now, I believe I love this girl. She is the best friend I have. We're going to be going to different colleges, but chances are I will still be able to see her somewhat regularly. And I will still love her, even if she never returns my feelings. I believe she is the only person I could truly love. There have been a few other girls whom I must admit I have found attractive, but I never once wanted to be in a "relationship" with them, because during all that time, I've known that I really love one girl, and only one girl.

In short, no, I do not got a girlfriend. I have something much more special, much more important; I have a good friend whom I love dearly. And I would never trade that friendship for the utterly shallow "status" of having a "girlfriend," especially as an end unto itself.

Edited by - Chupperson Weird on 5/25/2005 11:52:06 PM
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Sapphira on May 26, 2005, 12:54:02 AM
I wholeheartedly agree with almost all that Chup just said. Thanks for making it so I didn't have to rant more, bro. ;)

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Wise men talk because they have something to say;
fools, because they have to say something.
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Markio on May 26, 2005, 07:40:31 AM
Yeah, it would be weird if Sapph ranted about your opinions if you didn't write them first.

Pure being is getting hit in the face by a kickball.
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Yoshisaurus Rex on May 26, 2005, 07:46:07 AM
Great to hear you say that, Chup.  A lot of great relationships can come from solid, meaningful friendships where two people can work out their problems and be around each other long enough to really know more about them.

"Do you got a mullet goin’ on?"
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: superstarMASIAH on May 26, 2005, 08:03:31 AM
Oh sure, make an example of me!!!

O world-egg, hear me.
I am Horus of millions of years.
I am lord and master of the throne
Freed from evil, I traverse the ages
and spaces that are endless.
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: superstarMASIAH on May 26, 2005, 08:03:33 AM
DP

O world-egg, hear me.
I am Horus of millions of years.
I am lord and master of the throne
Freed from evil, I traverse the ages
and spaces that are endless.

Edited by - superstarMASIAH on 5/26/2005 7:04:16 AM
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Markio on May 28, 2005, 02:27:02 PM
I almost had a psychic girlfriend once, but we broke up before she met me.

Thank you for visting my world, come again ... Now entering reality, welcome back.
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Yoshisaurus Rex on May 28, 2005, 06:49:02 PM
Hmm.  Interesting.  You know speaking of blondes, I know a really great girl/friend who graduated last year, and let me tell you she is one of the most caring, funny, talented, and incredible people I know.  Her name is Beka, the daughter of our pastor, and although her eyes are brown instead of blue, she has a wonderful heart for people and an amazing singing voice.  She has won lots of awards at different places and touched so many lives, and she's so nice that it's impossible not to like her.  If she doesn't become famous some day I will be very surprised.  I hope I can marry a woman almost exactly like her in the future.

"Do you got a mullet goin’ on?"
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: superstarMASIAH on May 28, 2005, 06:53:37 PM
Man, this one girl is driving me crazy!!!!!!  I think about her all the time.  Its like, when I'm around her, I'm swimming in a sea of mental extasy.  I can tell that I really like her because whenever she isnt around, im sad, but I dont know that she's not there.  Its crazy!!!!!  And I know this love isnt shallow.  But its hard to explain.  The only thing I can say is, I'm a fool in love.

"An eye for an eye to all eternity:
thus is the law of Hell observed in me."~Dante Alighieri, Canto XXVIII, line 142
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Markio on May 28, 2005, 07:49:39 PM
I'm more concerned about getting through life while passing off as normal, so getting married would kind of foil my plans.

Thank you for visting my world, come again ... Now entering reality, welcome back.
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Toddathon on May 28, 2005, 10:20:32 PM
well, i'ma update y'all on my relationship-life.  I'm still with my gf same as last time, but I must say that I don't find myself attracted to her at all anymore, so it's a small amount of time before I end it.  And I must say that I fell in love with my neighbor's daughter, and she's a fabulous girl, and i think i'm gonna ask her out as soon as i end the other one.

___________________________
I am the best person in existance!
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Chupperson Weird on May 28, 2005, 11:06:52 PM
I feel like I should shoot Todd or something to put him out of these girls' misery.
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Yoshisaurus Rex on May 29, 2005, 01:10:53 PM
I can just push him the pool with the other guys if you want. ^_______^

Just kidding of course.

"Do you got a mullet goin’ on?"

Edited by - Yoshisaurus Rex on 5/31/2005 7:46:27 AM
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Toddathon on May 29, 2005, 08:16:36 PM
lmao, don't do that please.  And I'm not a bad guy, so don't make that assumption.

___________________________
I am the best person in existance!
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Markio on May 29, 2005, 10:07:13 PM
Most people aren't bad, really.  When I find someone really unpleasant, I try to ignore them and think, "They probably make someone happy..."  Either that, or I wish I could see their most emotionally negative moments in their lives so I could feel like at least they suffer too, or something.  Either that, or whenever they're standing nearby, I just keep on walking.... keep on walking...  Either that, or I just don't pay attention, kind of like what you should have done when you saw this post!



Thank you for visting my world, come again ... Now entering reality, welcome back.

Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Lizard Dude on May 30, 2005, 12:37:27 PM
As of yesterday, I Officially don't have a girlfriend. But what's in a name? Nothing actually changed.

"All this guy ever does is eat, sleep, say stuff, DDR, and wear glasses."
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Toddathon on May 30, 2005, 04:15:21 PM
My biggest problem is finding the right girl for me, and living in a small town...that's really hard to accomplish.  In fact, I doubt I'll find a girl who's right for me while i'm still in high school.  When I move to the city next year and begin living on my own, i'm sure i'll meet someone i can put up with.  The only girl who was ever perfect for me ended up dating one of my best friends.  However, I bear with things.  If I could date a female clone of myself, I so would!

___________________________
I am the best person in existance!
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Chupperson Weird on May 30, 2005, 07:21:41 PM
...*hides in horrible fear of Todd's mental image*

Incredibly, the girl I mentioned before has decided to go to the college I will be attending. So that makes me somewhat happier than I have been.
I wish to say something which sort of relates to LD's comment: Even if the girl I love ever returned my feelings, I can't see how she would be my "girlfriend." She'd still be my friend. That seems to mean a lot more.
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Watoad on May 30, 2005, 09:27:38 PM
> Most people aren't bad, really.



With one exception, there is no such thing as a good person, and there never has been. I don't expect any of you to agree with me on this, though; I know few people who do.



> If I could date a female clone of myself, I so would!



Yikes, that's weird! And for reasons beyond the fact that it's simply a strange statement to make! o_Ø



"He is not a fool who gives up what he cannot keep for the sake of what he can never lose."

Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: smfan1085 on May 30, 2005, 09:30:45 PM
I agree with you on that, Watoad.

Ever notice how the name "Playstation" sounds more kiddy than "Gamecube" or "Nintendo 64"?
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Markio on May 30, 2005, 11:11:11 PM
To clarify on what I meant, I was was sort of quoting the end of To Kill A Mockingbird, when Scout was talking about the book her father was reading, and she mentions an innocent character that they had thought had done some evil acts, and she says, "Oh Atticus, he was real nice...".  Atticus says, "Most people are, once you get to know them."  So what I really meant was that most people aren't bad, as in they are nice.

Edited by - Markio on 5/30/2005 10:14:40 PM

Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Yoshisaurus Rex on May 31, 2005, 08:52:54 AM
Todd: So what exactly is it that you don't find attractive about your old gf?  Do you mean that the chemistry isn't there anymore, or she isn't giving you as much attention, or what?  I'm not a relationship expert ("That's for sure!") so I don't know a whole lot about this stuff but I wanna know why you aren't attracted to her anymore.  I promise not to push you in the pool if you tell me.

And about that clone thing... honestly I used to wish that too. *gags at the thought* But now I would prefer someone is who NOT like me because I really get on my nerves sometimes and it helps to have someone who can point out your mistakes and also "complete your missing half" so to speak by being different in temperaments.

"Do you got a mullet goin’ on?"

Edited by - Yoshisaurus Rex on 5/31/2005 7:57:00 AM
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Toddathon on May 31, 2005, 04:46:29 PM
well...she's a very nice girl, not striking, but not unattractive.  The reason I don't really like her anymore is kapow: we're too different.  I really can't live with a girl who is too different from me.  We just don't share too much of a common interest...that, and I fell in love with another girl....

Still, there hopefully is a girl out there that's right for me, but she has to be a lot like me, hence the clone statement.

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Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Markio on May 31, 2005, 05:12:32 PM
I probably couldn't go out with a girl that was too different from me either; that's why I'm single.

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Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: MEGAߥTE on May 31, 2005, 08:44:06 PM
To answer the original question, yes.
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Chupperson Weird on May 31, 2005, 09:12:48 PM
My last comment on this matter: Todd never fell in love with anybody.
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Celedux on June 01, 2005, 09:42:52 PM
I'll answer the original question as well:

I'm currently not dating anyone, but I'm planning on asking out this one chick who's just too awesome for me not to. The only downside is, she's what, 19, and I'm 17.

Edit: Well, what am I saying? It's not really a downside; it's actually an upside. It's just the part that makes her harder to get.


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Edited by - Celedux on 6/1/2005 8:43:34 PM
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: gunblade88 on June 02, 2005, 08:12:47 PM
Hmm. This is a tough one. I just went through a breakup, although mutual (I think) it was still a breakup.

My ideal girl is very intelligent. But not extremely outspoken. Of course, she's gotta be nice. Also, she wouldn't need any kind of hint or suggestion from me to be intimate. I like physical contact, and I like attention and LOVE to give attention.

She wouldn't be too independent because I like to help and I like to do things for her. But independent enough not to rely on me for everything, be a dits, or clumsy. And this is one of my pet peeves, but I really like punctuality. No being late. I think that a girl that wants to be a little early is attractive to my mind. I'm drawn to people like that. (well sort of :: cough :: screech :: cough ::)

Also, I would enjoy being with her out of school and not at my or her house. She has to have a sense of adventure. I really like adventure, like a sudden want to just go riding in the countryside, or a hike through the woods, or a random call wanting to go to the local mall or see a movie.

Also, this is a big thing I believe for everyone, she MUST accept me for who I am. I shouldn't have to hide one thing about myself from her that may change the way she feels about me. It sounds demanding with the "MUST" and all, but it is a must. Also, she, like myself, would keep little things secret just to keep them erm 'sacred' i suppose. Y'know those little moments where you look into her eyes and you know she's the one, or the first kiss. Stuff like that. Those moments are the most precious to me and I wouldn't be with a girl if she didn't keep the secret moments 'sacred'. Also, she must be her own person.

 Not letting friends control who she is or letting a friend get in the way of us as a couple. When I ask for privacy, I don't want a nosy friend tailing us five feet away. Also, I'd respect her even more if I'm not head over heels for her by now, I'd probably implode with love if she were that way. It means she is somebody completely original and lets no outside fluences affect her.

Also, she's gotta love music. Music is the life of everything in my opinion. As Jimi Hendrix said, "Acting, Music, Art, andything like that is very earthly and it can be replaced by nothing." It'd be nice if music were a strong trait in her. Singing. . .playing, whatever.

Anyways, there's my very ideal girl. However, there seems to be many, I understand that there is no such thing as perfect and Four or five out of the ones listed would be VERY Ideal in my eyes. Speaking of eyes. It would be nice if she were attractive, however, I do not let my eyes judge who I would date.

Well, there you have it, the perfect girlfriend for Gunblade88

Edited by - gunblade88 on 6/2/2005 7:16:22 PM
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Toddathon on June 05, 2005, 08:34:15 PM
just so ya know, i broke up with my girlfriend today, and I'm taking the girl I like to prom on Saturday.

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Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Yoshisaurus Rex on June 06, 2005, 01:05:35 PM
GB: You sure know what you're looking for!

Todd: Sorry about that, man.

MegaB: But what do you like about her? :)

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Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Chupperson Weird on June 06, 2005, 07:00:18 PM
I came here to scream in you people's faces.
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Toddathon on June 06, 2005, 08:50:30 PM
I don't know...i feel something for her that i never felt for my girlfriend...and i think she likes me...when i asked her, there was absolutely no hesitation, and she said yes so gleefully.

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Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Lizard Dude on June 06, 2005, 10:11:36 PM
Who wouldn't say yes to the stud that is Toddathon? ;)

"All this guy ever does is eat, sleep, say stuff, DDR, and wear glasses."
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Black Mage on June 06, 2005, 10:57:07 PM
 I'll bet his Ex wouldn't. Again.
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Watoad on June 06, 2005, 11:04:07 PM




"Yes."



"He is not a fool who gives up what he cannot keep for the sake of what he can never lose."

Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Toddathon on June 07, 2005, 03:34:50 PM
Wow, thanks for bringing that picture back to life, i thought it was gone forever.  That was me about 3 years ago, and I lost that picture last time my computer crashed, but thanks for bringing it back.  I like that picture.  And thanks for saying yes.  LMAO!  But yeah, things are going good with the new girl, i shall ask her out this saturday either at prom or right after, depending on how the night goes.

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Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Yoshisaurus Rex on June 10, 2005, 09:50:18 PM
Good thing he didn't leave his pointer on the picture for a second.  Watoad, you're so mean. XD

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Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Watoad on June 11, 2005, 06:16:22 PM
It's nothing to gloat about, but you're actually right on some levels, Yoshisaurus. In this case, though, I was just giving a little extension to Lizard's joke/comment and consciously had no ill intent or motive. Notice that both of the words I posted are in quotes, which is the case because they were actually "spoken" by the person or people referred to in Lizard's post.

Back to the topic of this thread, I actually have something new to say about it: As far as I can see, my future holds no dating or girlfriend relationships whatsoever. It seems that the next female with whom I develop a significant-other type of relationship, if there is one, will be my wife.

More text coming your way extremely soon, by the way, Mr. Rex. ~_^

"He is not a fool who gives up what he cannot keep for the sake of what he can never lose."
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Chupperson Weird on June 11, 2005, 09:03:19 PM
Wouldn't you have to find a girl and get to know her before you married her? :P

Edited by - Chupperson Weird on 6/11/2005 8:06:35 PM
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Watoad on June 11, 2005, 10:34:24 PM
Yeah, I certainly used to think so. But as I see things now, only the latter half is something I need to worry about.

"He is not a fool who gives up what he cannot keep for the sake of what he can never lose."
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Yoshisaurus Rex on June 11, 2005, 10:36:18 PM
Watoad: Oh.  Thank you!

CW: Not if he went to the future in a time machine and found out that he was going to marry her anyway.

EDIT: That's the first time that I've written a short post and someone else beat me to it with also a short post.  I really have no life (don't agree with that or else).

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Edited by - Yoshisaurus Rex on 6/11/2005 9:37:54 PM
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Markio on June 11, 2005, 11:05:33 PM
It would be hypocritical of me to say someone else has no life.

I don't want to get in a relationship.  I'll spare the girls some horror.
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Watoad on June 11, 2005, 11:50:21 PM
You guys make me laugh. :D

I've been beaten by others' posts several times. Sometimes it takes me five or 10 minutes to write just one sentence because I can't decide on the wording of it and/or simply because of my typically distracted self. That of course allows plenty of time for another post to swing in and make me look the fool. :P

"He is not a fool who gives up what he cannot keep for the sake of what he can never lose."
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: frostbite on June 13, 2005, 04:55:27 PM
I have a girlfriend. She says I'm weird.

 
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Yoshisaurus Rex on June 18, 2005, 08:32:04 PM
I feel ya, dog.

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Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Chupperson Weird on June 22, 2005, 12:08:24 AM
That was just wrong.

"I think he will carry this island home in his pocket, and give it his son for an apple."
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Yoshisaurus Rex on June 24, 2005, 04:02:05 PM
To those who have a sick mind, yes. ;) No, I'm kidding.  Translation of last post: I "have compassion for you and understand because I myself am a bit weird" ya, dog.

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Edited by - Yoshisaurus Rex on 6/24/2005 3:02:33 PM
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: CoconutMikeNIke on June 24, 2005, 07:32:33 PM
I was going to ask a girl in my class out, but then I thought "With a girlfriend, I'll have less time to sit on my couch scratching myself, playing Mario."  And so, here I am, without a girlfriend.

You say you want a {Nintendo}revolution, well, you know, we all want to change the world
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Pirate on June 25, 2005, 01:57:36 PM
I have no boyfriend.. or girlfriend.
and I really can't understand why...
cause **** if i was a guy I'd ask me out. =S haha, no..

Maybe it's because I'm a pirate, haharr & my only love is the sea, yarr...

I don't know anyone worthy of my partnership & the blessing of my presence.. is it obvious why I'm single? haharr..

Who cares really, I'm fine by myself, I don't need someone taking up my time when I could be playing mariokart on time trials & beating my best record, or painting another self portrait.

Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: superstarMASIAH on June 25, 2005, 02:18:00 PM
OK, that laugh was just freaky.  But I can understand where you are coming from.

Al Pacino came out of the theater...  Bruce Willis came out of the T.V...  But Mel Gibson, came out of nowhere.
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Ambulance Y on June 27, 2005, 07:39:13 PM
I'm so happy. Me and my ex are geting back together finally. We're both happy about it, and the world is my oyster, even though oysters suck. The world is more like my, um, peach cobbler. Peach cobbler is good. So, ya, I'm pretty happy about this, and I hope my and my bowbooie stay together.
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Vidgmchtr on June 27, 2005, 11:44:48 PM
Why oh why is this thread still alive?
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Martini on July 26, 2005, 07:39:52 AM
why in God's name do you want to know about our love life you...
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Black Mage on July 26, 2005, 12:24:38 PM
Pirate, I have nothing to say to you but thank you.

 Thank you for joining the forums.


Anyways, no.
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Toddathon on July 26, 2005, 09:35:09 PM
well things aren't going well at all with the girl next door, she now hates me.  I would explain why but I am too tired and wanna go to bed.  peace out!

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Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: mario_luigifan104 on August 19, 2005, 04:13:18 PM
well i did when i was like five,but now I don't .As for that i don't really give a rat's [tail].

VOTE FOR PEDRO!

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Edited by - Sapphira on 8/19/2005 11:45:46 PM
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: PaperLuigi on August 19, 2005, 05:03:37 PM
*sniff*......If I had one, I wouldn't be complaining about how I don't. Oh well, it aint so bad.

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Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Jin on August 19, 2005, 07:27:13 PM
Alsost, you just have to do everything a teenaged girl likes to do.Like talk bad stuff about people they hate. Just agree and be nice with them, thats all.
Title: Re: Do you got a girlfriend?
Post by: Glorb on August 20, 2005, 09:54:57 AM
Yeah, I'm just a 13-year-old bachelor, crashin' in my phat pad crib wit mah homies 'n' stuff. Werd up, yo. You can tell this is false because of my psuedo-jive talk, the fact that I'm posting this on a forum, and because I said "psuedo".

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