If they're judging based on looks, they need to grow up a little bit. Only kids want something after seeing it. My 2 1/2 year old future niece does that. She sees some toy on tv that she wants and she'll say "Mom, can you buy that for me?"
Now, I'm saying I'm more mature or anything, but when I first saw my fiancee, I thought she was beautiful, and the first thing I remember thinking about her was "Hey she's cute! I could marry her." I know that sounds really shallow, but I somehow knew when I first saw her that I wanted her to be by my side forever, even though she barely knew I existed.
I spent several years getting to know her, and we even dated off and on for a couple of years. I spent a couple of years getting to know her, and found that we had many things in common (love of video games, for one). I found out that she's shy like I am (unless she really knows a person), she knows a lot about plants and animals, and she has a very pretty smile.
Er.. anyway, I'm trying to say that I am proud to have a found a girl with brains. It's a lot more fun to be with somebody smart. :)