The point is I don't see religion as something that the government "uses" to control me. Nensondubious can't possibly understand religion because he isn't religious. I see it as something that influences me to do good things in this life, and I also see it as something that unites me with other people. Why is that a bad thing? I'm not asking Chupperson, I'm asking nensondubious.
To be perfectly honest, I oppose the death penalty because of my religion. See
Matthew 5:38-42. Nensondubious, when you and I agree with banning the death penalty, and I do it because of religious reasons, do you still think it's a form of control? Do you still think the government is using my religion to control me when the two of us both oppose the death penalty? Yes, the government has problems, but if I can freely choose to oppose the death penalty (which the government implements) based on my religion, are they still "controlling" me?
Yes, I've read the passages that say that we should punish those that do wrong, but Jesus came to Earth and rewrote the law (according to our religion). He states this several times in the New Testament.