I think the whole reason that women are a lot like tha in real life now is because of the media, if only subconciously, pressuring them into doing so. I'm not saying women shouldn't be independent, but by being that way they are basically giving developers a get-out-of-jail-free card, so they can say "the females in are game are like that because they're like that in real life". The women have every right to do so, but by doing so are just allowing themselves to be degraded. I don't think that we should go back into the dark ages when women had no rights, but they're mostly doing a lot of it.