It's amazing to me how girls can make you feel guilty over not doing anything. You see, my friend and I were having a discussion about...something, when someone else who was not in the discussion brought up an insulting comment about my mom. Now, it was all in good fun, I guess, but it was particularly offensive to me because it happened to reference something unpleasant a few years back. Somehow, grandparents were brought up somewhere along the line. The girl I was talking to had a grandfather who had died a week back. By bringing that up, I had accidentally caused her to cry and leave the room, despite my attempts to apologize. Which is despite the fact that I didn't do anything.