Hmm. This is a tough one. I just went through a breakup, although mutual (I think) it was still a breakup.
My ideal girl is very intelligent. But not extremely outspoken. Of course, she's gotta be nice. Also, she wouldn't need any kind of hint or suggestion from me to be intimate. I like physical contact, and I like attention and LOVE to give attention.
She wouldn't be too independent because I like to help and I like to do things for her. But independent enough not to rely on me for everything, be a dits, or clumsy. And this is one of my pet peeves, but I really like punctuality. No being late. I think that a girl that wants to be a little early is attractive to my mind. I'm drawn to people like that. (well sort of :: cough :: screech :: cough ::)
Also, I would enjoy being with her out of school and not at my or her house. She has to have a sense of adventure. I really like adventure, like a sudden want to just go riding in the countryside, or a hike through the woods, or a random call wanting to go to the local mall or see a movie.
Also, this is a big thing I believe for everyone, she MUST accept me for who I am. I shouldn't have to hide one thing about myself from her that may change the way she feels about me. It sounds demanding with the "MUST" and all, but it is a must. Also, she, like myself, would keep little things secret just to keep them erm 'sacred' i suppose. Y'know those little moments where you look into her eyes and you know she's the one, or the first kiss. Stuff like that. Those moments are the most precious to me and I wouldn't be with a girl if she didn't keep the secret moments 'sacred'. Also, she must be her own person.
Not letting friends control who she is or letting a friend get in the way of us as a couple. When I ask for privacy, I don't want a nosy friend tailing us five feet away. Also, I'd respect her even more if I'm not head over heels for her by now, I'd probably implode with love if she were that way. It means she is somebody completely original and lets no outside fluences affect her.
Also, she's gotta love music. Music is the life of everything in my opinion. As Jimi Hendrix said, "Acting, Music, Art, andything like that is very earthly and it can be replaced by nothing." It'd be nice if music were a strong trait in her. Singing. . .playing, whatever.
Anyways, there's my very ideal girl. However, there seems to be many, I understand that there is no such thing as perfect and Four or five out of the ones listed would be VERY Ideal in my eyes. Speaking of eyes. It would be nice if she were attractive, however, I do not let my eyes judge who I would date.
Well, there you have it, the perfect girlfriend for Gunblade88
Edited by - gunblade88 on 6/2/2005 7:16:22 PM